Dinner is the default for a reason — it works. But if you have been on a few dinner dates and want to try something different, London offers an extraordinary range of experiences that are arguably even better for building a genuine connection with your companion. Here are our favourites.
Private Gallery Viewings
Several London galleries offer late-night or private viewing events. The Royal Academy, the Serpentine, and the Saatchi Gallery all host evening events where you can explore exhibitions with a glass of champagne in a far more intimate setting than the daytime crowds allow. If your escort has an interest in art — and several of ours do — this is an experience she will genuinely appreciate.
Thames River Cruise
Not the touristy ones with commentary and paper cups. We mean a private or small-group evening cruise with proper drinks, departing from Westminster or Tower Pier. Watching the London skyline glide past from the water, lit up at night, is one of those experiences that feels romantic without trying. It works particularly well as the first part of an evening before heading back to your hotel.
Rooftop Cinema Club
Seasonal outdoor cinema screenings on London rooftops — Peckham, Stratford, and occasionally pop-up locations in the West End. Blankets provided, food and cocktails available, and the atmosphere is relaxed and fun. It is a brilliantly different option for a summer evening, and the shared experience of watching a film together creates a natural, easy dynamic.
West End Theatre
It sounds obvious, but a genuinely good West End show followed by drinks at a nearby bar is a near-perfect evening. The key is choosing well — ask your escort if she has any preferences, or ask our team for suggestions based on what is currently running. A private box, if available, adds a touch of exclusivity that turns a night at the theatre into something truly special.
Spa and Wellness Experiences
Several luxury hotels — including The Corinthia, The Bulgari, and ESPA Life at The Langham — offer couples spa treatments that can be booked as part of a longer date. An hour of side-by-side treatments followed by time in the relaxation area creates a calm, intimate atmosphere that is entirely different from the energy of a restaurant. It is particularly good for afternoon bookings that extend into the evening.
Members' Club Evenings
If you have membership at one of London's private clubs — Soho House, The Arts Club, Annabel's, Home House — taking your companion there can feel far more personal than a restaurant. The atmosphere is relaxed, the service is familiar, and you are on your own turf. If you do not have a membership, several clubs allow guest bookings for dining — ask us and we can advise which ones are accessible.
Jazz and Live Music
Ronnie Scott's in Soho is the obvious choice, but also look at the Pizza Express Jazz Club in Soho, Kansas Smitty's in Hackney, and the jazz evenings at The Savoy's Beaufort Bar. Live music creates an atmosphere that makes conversation effortless — you can talk between sets and enjoy the music together. It is an underrated date option that our escorts consistently tell us they love.
Making It Happen
If any of these appeal to you, mention it when you contact us. Our booking team can suggest the right companion — some of our escorts are theatre enthusiasts, some are art lovers, some are foodies, and some are happiest at a jazz club with a cocktail. Matching your interests with the right personality is what we do best. Browse the gallery to get started.
A Few More Ideas Worth Mentioning
Afternoon Tea at The Lanesborough
If you want something indulgent without committing to a full evening, afternoon tea at The Lanesborough is hard to beat. The Regency-style dining room is stunning, the selection of teas is enormous, and the sandwiches and pastries are genuinely excellent — not the dry, decorative kind you get at lesser hotels. It is also a brilliant option if your companion enjoys dressing up during the day. Smart attire expected. Around £75-85 per person.
A Walk Through Kew Gardens
For something completely different from the usual Central London circuit, Kew Gardens offers 300 acres of botanical beauty that feels a world away from the city. The Temperate House is breathtaking, the Treetop Walkway gives you a different perspective entirely, and on a sunny day, wandering the grounds together is one of the most naturally romantic things you can do in London. Best combined with an afternoon or early evening booking — finish with dinner in nearby Richmond.
A Private Screening at the Electric Cinema, Notting Hill
The Electric has leather armchairs, footstools, and double beds in the front row. Yes, actual beds. It screens a mix of new releases and classics, and the whole experience feels like watching a film in someone's incredibly stylish living room. Combine it with dinner at a Notting Hill restaurant and you have an evening that feels genuinely different from the norm.
Cocktails at Dandelyan (Now Lyaness), South Bank
The bar formerly known as Dandelyan — repeatedly voted the world's best bar — reinvented itself as Lyaness and remains one of London's most creative drinking experiences. The cocktails are built around unusual base ingredients and the river views from the Waterloo location are excellent. A sophisticated alternative to the usual Mayfair bar circuit.
Making It Work With a Booking
The key to a successful non-dinner date is communication. Let our team know what you are planning so they can match you with a companion who will genuinely enjoy the activity. An escort who loves theatre will be a much better companion at the Old Vic than one who would rather be at a cocktail bar — and vice versa.
Most of these activities work beautifully with a Girlfriend Experience booking. The GFE is at its best when there is something to share and experience together, rather than just sitting across a table. A river cruise, a gallery visit, or a walk through the park creates natural conversation and genuine shared moments — exactly what the GFE is designed for.
Browse our gallery and let our booking team know your plans. We will suggest the perfect companion for whatever you have in mind.
